Last night Doug and I were at our foster care class. One of the ladies that attends with us came up to me during a group activity to say that I had been on her mind since we had met two weeks before. "I know you will probably think I am crazy, but I feel like I know who your daughter is supposed to be. The girl I am adopting has a little sister that we can't adopt, and I thought of you. . . Stacy she looks just like you. Blonde hair, big blue eyes, she struck me with how much she could be yours." She went on to say that she knew we were already considering another girl and her brother, but wondered if we might have room for another child. She asked us to pray and consider Katie.

I talked to Doug, and we were both worried about jumping from none to three in one fell swoop. We came home, talked seriously, prayed and went to bed. We both woke up with a very clear feeling of yes. Doug was so sure of everything that he told me to start finding ways to sell the queen bed we purchased last month and perhaps recoup enough to get a couple of Craigslist twin beds.
I listed the queen with a price and a note about being willing to barter for two twins in exchange for the queen. I had tons of offers to buy the bed, and I was fielding those calls while trying to find two reasonably priced and nice enough beds for the girls. In the midst of the insanity ... the miracle. A lady had two brand new twin beds, new mattresses, and all the bedding ... NEVER USED! She has twins that weren't ready for their big girl beds and still wanted to share a bed. They had decided to sell the twins and buy a queen size, so my offer was perfect. They get what they need. Doug and I get what we need, and everyone is happy.
So why is this not all just a lovely coincidence? Because my sister found a friend at just the right time to tell me about Arrow Family Ministries, and because that friend referred me I was able to get in the classes more quickly, and in those classes I met Jayne, who found Katie, who might become our daughter.
And God let us KNOW it.
And because Kylee and Jenna were gearing up for a renovation and had plenty of money they sold us an amazing queen bed for a ton less than it was worth ... and that bed was nice enough that someone was willing to trade it for two brand new beds ... is that coincidence?
Even I am not that dense. So thank you Heavenly Father for seeing every needful thing, and helping Doug and me find what we need to start our family. It all comes back to tender mercies my friends, and I just wanted to share the latest amazing blessings that God is showering on us.


5 comments:
*HUGS* I read this somewhere a long time ago: "a coincidence is a small miracle where God prefers to remain anonymous."
That's so great! I always wonder if Heavenly Father sits up there and says, "I love it when a plan comes together."
You know Heavenly Father wants a plan to happen when every tiny detail works out SO perfectly!
Every family ought to have a Katie-girl! What a blessing for all of you!
My cousin Tim and his wife Rachelle just finished up the legalities of obtaining sole custody of the last of their very mixed (one of hers, one of his and 5 through foster to adopt!) He says all the agony, the time, the money--everything is worth it.
But just in case you can use a cry/laugh check out:
http://www.rantsfrommommyland.com/2011/04/domestic-enemies-of-foster-mom.html
There is also a great one on adoptive parents, too.
I'm so happy for you guys! I truly believe that there are no coincidences--it's just the Lord's hand, quietly guiding us in the direction we need to go.
I hadn't read your blog when I wrote you this weekend. I love your story. My niece has just adopted a baby boy. When the birth mother found her, everything went fast. There were some problems but they were resolved quickly.
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